Life on a Roller Coaster

"When a resolute young fellow steps up to the great bully, the world, and takes him boldly by the beard, he is often surprised to find it comes off in his hand, and that it was only tied on to scare away the timid adventurers." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

February 27, 2006

**Imperfections**

An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole which she carried across her neck. One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water. At the end of the long walk from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.

For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water. Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments. But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been made to do.

After 2 years of what it perceived to be bitter failure,it spoke to the woman one day by the stream."I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your house."The old woman smiled, "Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side?That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them." "For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table. Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house."

Each of us has our own unique flaw.But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding.You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the good in them.

SO, to all of my crackpot friends, have a great day and remember to smell the flowers on your side of the path.

February 14, 2006

My other LOVE


Since it a "single" V-day once again... I will share one of my other loves... you saw the princess below. This is the big brother, and yes, that is a 20# big brother Tigger. Previously I thought it would be cruel to post a pic of him with his new "do" but I think it is adorable and he seems to like it too. I is my new lil Simba!! hehe. I hope everyone has/had a great day and wonderfull week. Love and kisses to all!

XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Jaime

February 13, 2006

Another Day.....

Today I lost another friend. This getting older thing stinks. Days go by, you meet more people and you lose touch with the ones that meant something or alot. Everyday I try to remember that I need to be better at staying in touch. I need to be better at calling. I need to be better. And then comes the call that someone you know and has meant alot to you, but apparently not enough to actually follow through with a phone call when I thought of it, has died. Ironic thing was, I saw, what in retrospect was him cleaning up loose ends, and thought about how I needed to call him. I know calling him wouldn't have stopped anything from happening but you still can't help but wonder or at least wish you had that last time at least to say Hi and Thank you. I say this not because I feel it is my fault or that I think I have some all-mighty power to change things but more to say...if you love someone or care about anyone - say it. If you think of someone, call them - don't wait to be called. If you have a falling out with someone who really does mean something to you - let it fall and pick up at a better place and go foward - don't leave them on the other side of that burned bridge. We just never know when nature, accident, or sadness will take someone away from us to a place where a phone call or letter will not reach.


From: Free Bird, Lynyard Skynard
Bye, bye baby it’s been sweet love yeah
Though this feeling I can’t change
Please don’t take it so badly
Cause the Lord knows I’m to blame
If I stay here with you girl
Things just couldn’t be the same
Cause I’m as free as a bird now
And this bird you cannot change

**I am sorry that felt leaving was better than staying but I hope you left knowing you really were loved**

**Needless to say, I didn't get a thing done today and no concentration. I spent the whole day thinking, at some point I would wake up and this will have all been a bad dream. But I am still awake and the day is still weird. And tomorrow is another day....